1 in 3 is becoming Beyond the Statistics. I Ep. 127
When this podcast began, it was built around a powerful statistic. But over time, it became clear that statistics can only tell part of the story.
In this special announcement episode, I share why the podcast is evolving and what Beyond the Statistics represents moving forward.
We explore:
- Why domestic violence is more than a number
- How coercive control, legal abuse, stalking, and psychological abuse fit into the larger picture
- The overlap between domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking
- Why recognizing patterns like grooming, manipulation, isolation, intimidation, and threats can help us better support survivors
- What listeners can expect from Beyond the Statistics
While the name is changing, the mission remains the same: amplifying survivor voices, educating communities, and advocating for meaningful change through honest conversations.
If this podcast has helped you feel seen, please subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode so more survivors and advocates can find these conversations.
Topics: Domestic violence, coercive control, survivor stories, intimate partner violence, trauma recovery, legal abuse, stalking, sexual assault, human trafficking, abuse awareness, healing, advocacy.
This podcast is intended for mature audiences. Some listeners may find the content distressing as episodes may include discussions of violence, human trafficking, and other forms of abuse, including emotional, psychological, sexual, financial, and physical. In many cases, names have been changed to protect those involved. Please note that the statements and opinions expressed by guests do not necessarily reflect my own.
If you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.
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Thank you for listening!
Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
Music by Tim Crowe
00:50 - A Big Announcement
01:12 - Why The Name One In Three
02:01 - When Statistics Shift Over Time
03:24 - What Numbers Cannot Explain
03:58 - Topics That Shaped The Show
04:05 - Where Violence Overlaps
05:11 - The Show Evolves Beyond A Number
05:42 - Introducing Beyond The Statistics
07:01 - What Changes And What Stays
07:31 - Gratitude And A New Chapter
Hi Warriors, welcome to One and Three. I'm your host, Ingrid. I'm hopping into your feed today with a big announcement. But before I share it, I want to reassure you your regular Wednesday episodes are not going anywhere. The conversations, the stories, and the mission behind this podcast are staying exactly where they've always been. When I launched
A Big Announcement
SPEAKER_00this podcast in 2023, I called it one in three for a reason. At the time, the statistics surrounding domestic violence were and still are staggering. The Centers for Disease Control previously reported that one in three men in the United States would experience physical violence, sexual violence, or stalking by an intimate partner during their lifetime.
Why The Name One In Three
SPEAKER_00Globally, the World Health Organization estimated that about one in three women would experience physical or sexual violence, most often at the hands of someone they know. Those numbers mattered. They mattered because they helped people understand the scope of a problem that is often hidden behind closed doors. They helped survivors recognize that they were not alone. And that was the purpose of one in three. But statistics change. As more research is conducted and more survivors come forward, we continue learning that domestic violence and other forms of abuse are not only more widespread than many people realized, but also more complex. The way abuse happens, the ways survivors experience it, and the barriers they face afterward have become
When Statistics Shift Over Time
SPEAKER_00much clearer. While it is encouraging that more survivors are being recognized, it's also heartbreaking because it reminds us that the problem is not getting smaller. And that made me ask an important question. If this podcast is built around statistics, what happens when those statistics change? The answer became very clear. This podcast was never really about a number. It was always about the people behind it. Now, don't get me wrong, statistics still matter. They give us context. They show us that abuse is not rare. It is not isolated. It's not something that happens to someone else. But statistics can only tell us so much. They can show us the scope of the problem, but they can't tell us what it felt like to live through abuse. They can't tell us what it took to leave, what healing looks like, or the courage it takes for survivors to speak their truth. That's where stories come in. Since launching this podcast, I've had the privilege of speaking with survivors who trusted me with some of the most painful, vulnerable moments of their lives. I've had conversations with experts, advocates, professionals, and researchers who have helped us understand abuse from so many different perspectives. Together, we have talked about coercive control,
What Numbers Cannot Explain
SPEAKER_00family court, legal abuse, traumatic brain injuries, faith, healing, childhood trauma, sexual assault, human trafficking, and so much more. And I want to talk about those last two topics for a moment because they are an important part of where this podcast is headed. Domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking are not always separate experiences. In many cases, they overlap. Survivors may experience more than one form of violence at the same time, and often the tactics used by offenders look remarkably
Topics That Shaped The Show
SPEAKER_00similar. Grooming, manipulation, isolation, intimidation, threats, and gaining
Where Violence Overlaps
SPEAKER_00control over another person's life. Understanding those connections matters because when we understand the patterns, we become better equipped to recognize abuse, support survivors, and create meaningful change. Every conversation I've had has reminded me of the same thing. Behind every statistic is a person, a person with a story, a person who deserves to be heard, a person whose life matters. And those stories are where healing begins. They are where education happens. They are where systems are challenged, and they are where change starts. As I reflected on where this podcast is today and where I hope to take it in the future, I realized something important. The podcast hasn't changed direction, it's evolved. What started as a podcast centered around domestic violence statistics has grown into a place where survivor voices are amplified, difficult conversations happen, and advocacy continues to expand. Every episode has added another layer to our understanding of abuse. Every guest has
The Show Evolves Beyond A Number
SPEAKER_00reminded us that behind every statistic is a human being. And because of that, I knew it was time for the name to grow too. So today, I'm excited to share that one in three will begin transitioning to its new name, Beyond the Statistics. I love this title because it honors where we started while making room for where we're going. I will never stop talking about the numbers because they matter. Awareness starts with understanding the scope of the problem. But numbers alone can't tell
Introducing Beyond The Statistics
SPEAKER_00the whole story. They don't tell us what it felt like to stay. They don't tell us what it took to survive. They don't tell us what it took to leave. They don't tell us about the journey of rebuilding a life afterward. They don't tell us how systems sometimes fail survivors, or how survivors continue fighting for change anyway. Those are the stories we are telling here. And that is what Beyond the Statistics represents. You will continue hearing honest conversations with survivors, experts, advocates, attorneys, therapists, healthcare professionals, and researchers. We will continue talking about domestic violence, sexual assaults, human trafficking, coercive control, healing, prevention, and the systems that impact survivors every single day. If anything, this new name gives us more room to continue growing while staying true to the heart of why this podcast exists. Over the next week, you will notice some changes. The cover art will be updated, the podcast description will evolve, the website and social media will gradually transition to reflect the new name. But your Wednesday episodes will continue exactly as they always have. Nothing about where or how you listen will change. This
What Changes And What Stays
SPEAKER_00is simply the beginning of a new chapter, and I wanted you, my listeners, to hear it from me first. I also wanted to say thank you. Thank you to every survivor who has trusted me with their story. Thank you to every expert who has shared their knowledge. Thank you to every advocate working to make systems safer and more responsive. And thank you to everyone of you who has listened, shared an episode, left a review, sent a message,
Gratitude And A New Chapter
SPEAKER_00or quietly found comfort in knowing that someone else understood. You have helped shape this podcast into something I never imagined when I hit publish on that very first episode. This next chapter belongs to all of us. I'm so excited for what's ahead, and I cannot wait to continue this journey with you as we move beyond the statistics together. Thank you for listening. Stay strong, and wherever you are in your journey, always remember you are not alone. Oh, and welcome to Beyond the Statistics. And stories are where change begins.