Podcast Episodes

When you think of a domestic abuse victim, does a man come to mind? In this eye-opening episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the story of Tami Weissenberg (pseudonym) and his personal journey as a male victim of domestic violence as taken from his book Darjeeling Pur.Tami’s story defies stereotypes, illustrating how emotional manipulation, physical abuse, and social isolation can impact men just as severely as women. Through his experiences, listeners will understand:The hidden strug...

How can families navigate the aftermath of domestic violence while advocating for justice? In this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid is joined by Michelle Horton, sister of Nicole Addimando, author of DEAR SISTER: A Memoir of Secrets, Survival, and Unbreakable Bonds. Michelle shares her journey of adopting her niece and nephew, supporting Nicole’s cause, and confronting systemic failures that leave survivors vulnerable. We explore: The subtle and overt signs of domestic abu...

Every life has a story that deserves to be told. In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid honors the memory of Kirsty Wilkinson, a young woman whose promising future in modeling and life was tragically cut short by domestic abuse and murder.We examine the relationship between Kirsty and her husband, Paul Grabham, exploring the early warning signs of abuse and the psychological control that escalated to fatal consequences. Through intimate readings from Kirsty’s personal journal, including...

On the night of April 23, 1993, Virginia Pictou Noyes vanished in Bangor, Maine, leaving behind a chilling story that remains unresolved.In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid unpacks Virginia’s life — from a turbulent upbringing to the complex dynamics with Larry and Roger Noyes Jr., men with a history of violence — culminating in a tragedy that underscores the hidden victims of domestic abuse.Virginia’s story is more than a mystery; it is a reminder of the countless people who suffe...

What happens when love becomes a source of fear? In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the compelling story of Hayley, a single mother whose pursuit of affection led her into a relationship marked by manipulation, gaslighting, and psychological abuse. Hayley’s experience exposes the hidden tactics abusers use to dominate and control, from subtle coercion to verbal and physical aggression. This episode provides both a personal narrative and a guide for understanding the signs of...

Welcome back to Kathy from episodes 1 and 2. In ths episode she shares what she has learned as a DV survivor.Check out Kathy's profile on the 1 in 3 website: https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/Kathy/1 in 3 is intended for mature audiences. Episodes contain explicit content and may be triggering to some.Support the showIf you are in the United States and need help right now, call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text the word “start” to 88788.Contact 1 in 3:Send ...

How do children survive when the person meant to provide care becomes the source of fear and harm? In this gut-wrenching episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the story of the three daughters and nephew of Shelly Knotek. Victims of relentless physical, verbal, and psychological abuse, these children endured an environment of manipulation, cruelty, and terror at the hands of their mother. Through their experiences, we explore the devastating impact of parental abuse, the longing for nur...

How does manipulation become total control — and how can someone be isolated from everyone they love? In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid examines the heartbreaking story of Ron Woodworth, a man searching for stability after personal tragedy who instead became entangled in the destructive control of Shelly Knotek. Through psychological manipulation, isolation, and escalating abuse, Ron was gradually cut off from his support system — even pressured to sever ties with his own mother. ...

What does abuse look like when manipulation becomes a prison — and escape feels impossible? In this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid examines the devastating experience of Kathy Loreno, a compassionate hairdresser and caregiver whose life became entangled in the web of control created by Shelly Knotek. Kathy entered the relationship as a trusted friend but gradually became isolated, psychologically manipulated, and subjected to escalating physical and emotional abuse. Through co...

This episode is dedicated to Hedy Vincent June 21, 1976-December 15, 2023. She will forever remain my hero in faith, strength, perseverance, kindness, humor, humility and love.All warriors are recognized on 1 in 3. This is an episode shared from the podcast "Another Situation."While glioblastoma typically affects Caucasian males with a median age of 64, it can be found in others. Listen as Hedy shares the details of her diagnosis with GBM. With the support of so many around her, maintained h...

What happens when instability, control, and dysfunction take root inside a family? In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid explores the complex life story of Shelly Knotek, tracing her path from adolescence through turbulent marriages and increasingly chaotic family dynamics. This episode examines how financial stress, unpredictable behavior, and controlling relationships created an environment marked by instability and emotional harm — and how these patterns deeply affected the childre...

Can you face the uncomfortable truth about how abuse and manipulation can slowly take hold inside a family?In this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid begins the disturbing and complex story of Michelle Knotek — often known as Shelly Knotek — whose life reveals how deception, instability, and control can reshape families and leave lasting harm.This first installment explores Shelly’s early years, marked by frequent moves, changing schools, fractured relationships, and escalating p...

How does an abusive relationship really begin — and why are the warning signs so easy to miss? In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the powerful survivor story of Abigail Blake, whose seemingly perfect relationship slowly transformed into a cycle of manipulation, control, and violence. What began with charm and affection evolved into psychological abuse, isolation, and eventually physical harm. Through Abby’s experience with her partner Sebastian, this episode explores the gra...

What happens when a survivor fights back — and the justice system fails to recognize the abuse behind the act?In this powerful advocacy-driven episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid examines the case of Nicole Addimando, whose story exposes the complex intersection of domestic violence, self-defense, and criminal justice.Drawing from the documentary And So I Stayed and investigative reporting, this episode explores the years of physical and sexual abuse Nicole endured, the escalating risk fac...

Be prepared for a deeply emotional and unforgettable story. In this gripping episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the tragic case of Landy Martinez — a story that began as a romance but ended in devastating violence. Through careful storytelling, this episode examines the escalating dynamics of a relationship marked by conflict, fear, and warning signs that ultimately culminated in murder. From a tense confrontation in a fast-food parking lot to the chilling 911 call made moments befo...

What would you do if the person you promised to love began wishing for your death? In this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the gripping true story of writer, journalist, and mother of three Michele Weldon — a survivor who endured years of emotional and physical abuse before finding the strength to rebuild her life. Through discussion of her memoir, I Close My Eyes, this episode explores the progression of abuse within an intimate relationship — from early warning signs d...

What happens when the world sees glamour — but behind closed doors, survival becomes a daily fight? In this powerful concluding episode, Ingrid explores the hidden reality behind the life of music legend Tina Turner and her deeply abusive marriage to Ike Turner. While audiences celebrated fame and success, Tina endured years of manipulation, control, and escalating violence. This episode examines the emotional and psychological toll of abuse, the devastating breaking point that led to her sui...

Discover the extraordinary life story of Tina Turner — born Anna Mae Bullock — in this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast.Host Ingrid explores Tina Turner’s turbulent childhood shaped by family instability, abandonment, and early adversity, revealing how resilience began long before fame. As a young woman and mother, Anna Mae faced complex choices while navigating her relationship with Ike Turner, a partnership that would both launch her career and place her in a deeply abusive environment...

Can you imagine the heartbreak and despair a child must feel when they're torn between two parents due to parental alienation? This episode is dedicated to Pamela Richardson, a mother whose teenage son Dash tragically took his own life as a result of the manipulative actions of his father, Peter. I discuss the complex issue of parental alienation, a form of psychological abuse that can occur during divorce, and share the devastating impacts it can have on children and families. Parental alie...

She once believed she was trapped in a cycle of abuse, feeling hopeless and alone. But after escaping that dark chapter, this anonymous author found love and healing in ways she never imagined possible. Join me as I share an anonymous submission of someone who endured an abusive relationship, recounting her journey of overcoming the trauma and finding happiness again. Listen to the harrowing experiences she faced, including animal cruelty and inappropriate behavior involving a child, and learn h...

This is part 3 and the conclusion of an anonymous submission previously released on "Another Situation" podcast in October 2021. She never thought it could happen to her, but the author found herself trapped in an abusive relationship filled with unpredictable rages, constant gaslighting, and emotional manipulation. In this powerful and emotional episode, she shares her personal journey and the red flags that were present early on, escalating into a toxic cycle of abuse. The author rev...

Have you ever found yourself trapped in a toxic and manipulative relationship, unable to see the red flags waving right in front of you? Join me in this eye-opening episode as I uncover the anonymous author's harrowing journey through emotional abuse, brainwashing, and the complex push-pull dynamic that left her constantly trying to become the partner her significant other wanted.But there's light at the end of the tunnel. As we follow the author's path to healing, we discover the support and ...

This is part 1 of an anonymous submission previously released on "Another Situation" podcast in October 2021. Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where something just doesn't feel right, but you can't quite put your finger on it? This episode shares an eye-opening story of a woman who, after separating from her husband, entered into a new relationship with a man who was also going through a separation. She mentions the numerous red flags she overlooked as their r...

Chairman Mark Brooks of the United Kingdom's, Mankind Initiative, joins me in today's episode. The charity provides direct support to male victims of domestic abuse via a national helpline. The staff and volunteers also assist in providing education and bringing awareness to the issue of domestic abuse in men. Mark presents statistics, current legal and political actions, and deficient areas in the realm of domestic abuse. While his information is UK based, most of it can be applied wor...