
Author, Speaker, Registered Psychotherapist, Trauma Survivor
š¹ Short Intro Bio (to read at the beginning):āØDarren Elliott is a Registered Psychotherapist, author, and creator of The Narcissism Recovery Project. Heās also the voice behind Doreen Devineā¢āa recovering narcissist drag queen comedian bringing truth in heels to heavy topics like emotional abuse, political gaslighting, and relational healing. Darrenās newest book, The United States of Disconnection, is a cultural wake-up call that blends psychology, memoir, and political insight with warmth, wit, and radical compassion.
š¹ Suggested Topics & Talking Points:
* What narcissism really isāand what it isnāt
* How narcissistic traits show up in families, relationships, politics, and culture
* The collective trauma of emotional disconnection in the U.S. since 2016
* What itās like to be a therapist and a singing drag queen (as Doreen Devineā¢)
* Tools for recovery and relational repairāstarting with Love Loopsā¢
š¹ Great Questions to Ask Darren:
1. What made you want to write The United States of Disconnection*?*
2. How do you define narcissism, and why is it so misunderstood?
3. Whatās the link between narcissism and politics todayāespecially in the U.S.?
4. Tell us about Doreen Devine. How did a drag queen become part of this project?
5. How can someone start healing from narcissistic abuse?
6. Whatās one thing you wish every listener understood about emotional growth?
š¹ Good to Know:
* Darren blends therapeutic insight with real-world languageāheās not clinical or dry.
* Heās comfortable talking about current events, religion, Trump, queer identity, and masculinity.
* He can get emotional and groundedāor playful and wittyāas the conversation flows.
* If you're open to it, heāll end with a practical takeaway or affirmation for your listeners.
Thanks againālooking forward to connecting with you and your audience!
Warmly,āØDarrenāØTheNarcissismRecoveryProject.com
The United States of Disconnection Free Pre-released Unedited Confidential Version
Americans needs to Love what theyāve been taught to Fear. (Each other.)
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sMj4fgAUjFaASH_3_0Sv19kyKnOmjliM/edit?usp=sharing&ouid=117976156740278663250&rtpof=true&sd=true
The United States of Disconnection is not just a book about narcissismāitās a cultural wake-up call wrapped in compassion. Psychotherapist Darren Elliott gently reveals how the same emotional abuse patterns we see in toxic relationships are now playing out on a national scaleāthrough politics, religion, social media, and even family life. But instead of blame or shame, he offers understanding, personal stories, and a pathway to healingāboth individually and together. This book helps readers recognize the narcissistic behaviors theyāve normalized, and shows them how to reconnectāwith empathy, with loved ones, and with themselves. Itās for anyone wondering, āWhat happened to us?āāand ready to be part of the answer.
Coming Soon: Love LoopsTM Personal Growth Guides and Workbooks for creating Love Loops in your life, and your community, one Loop at a time. Free resources to start your own Love LoopsTM Group and start the movement of learning to love each other again.